Paired: Couples & Relationship

I’m currently living out of the country for a year and my spouse and I decided to try this app to stay connected. Sometimes they ask really good questions other times it’s just way out in left field. They are obviously secularists who couldn’t imagine anyone else with different values living in the world using their app. Some times your mind gets blocked in answers and so the “example responses” are supposed to kick start your creativity. The problem is many times their “example responses” could only apply to sexual libertines and moral relativists. Even in their questions they sometimes push sexual ethics and boundaries to inappropriate places. Their questions suffer from the same myopic vision. Sometimes their questions only make sense to people steeped in their post-modern secular western value system. Could Amish even understand these questions? How about English speaking Africans, Catholic South Americans, Religious African Americans, English speaking Muslims, English speaking Hindi, Confucian Chinese? Nope most of these questions and answers are framed around white science worshiping secularists and their value system. As an example, “ Where do you see yourself relationally in Five years?” Example response: “Still in our Non-monogamous relationships but we have told our families.” Is this seriously what 90% of married couples want to have celebrated in 5 years? Like I said it’s a bit of a crapshoot some days are good other days my wife and I are like where did that question come from?

My relationship was in shambles, literally the most unhealthy place it could be. We had problems with communicating with each other problems with trusting each other, vulnerability, and even just a healthy and open line of communication. this app will have you to answer questions, play games and take quizzes while doing it. It just seems like you’re answering a question but the fact of the matter is the questions that are being asked, will warren deeper conversations. And I can honestly say where we have had conversations and ended up yelling at each other, or there were things that we wanted to address, but did not know how to bring it up. This app will put you inside of your partners head and put them inside of your head. We’re just a few simple question and it gives you a room to learn more discuss or even wait later if need be. I think one of my favorite parts about the app is when we answer questions about ourselves and each other, and it allows us to see how much we know each other but sometimes when you get a response or answer from your partner, it allows you to see how they view you, but it also allows you to give reason to whatever that thing with that reason is. this app is very costly and honestly I probably would not have it if I caught it before the seven day trial ended. But now that I have it I am she was going to thousand dollars for it so is you are on the fence about getting this app I want to be the thing or the person that encourages you to jump over the fence. This app is great!!!

My bf and I have been together for 4 years. We are currently long distance and looking for ways to continue being intimate with each other despite the distance. I feel like we are already really open and honest with each other but this app has taken it to another level. It’s helps facilitate conversations that we haven’t thought of or convos that we may be unsure of how to bring up. I love that our answers to the “question sets” are locked until we both answer so that we aren’t biased by what the other person’s response is. It may seem like a lot to spend $70 for the year for it but man it’s so worth it. Just look at it like a date night, dinner+drinks and a tip and this app is for the whole year. Go with the year subscription (it’s cheaper than the monthly) and really just explore this app with your partner. We’re learning new things about each other and our relationship and I am loving it. I also love this app because when I’m using it I feel like those who created the app are really passionate about what they’re doing here. I feel like I would want to be apart of the company, I just love this product. The concept and execution are a dream, so I get why they charge what they do. It’s worth the money. We briefly tried another app, but it almost felt like it was created and no one went back to continue making it better. This is the real deal, and can be a great asset to your relationship. Highly recommend.