Obedience: BDSM Habit Tracker

I was searching for something to stay connected with my long distance d/s relationship & happened up this app. The free trial blew me away so I purchased a year of premium for both of us when I saw there was a 50% discount & I am so glad that I did! There’s sections for everything you can think of that pertains to a d/s relationship. Limits, Ideas, Notes, Rewards, Punishments, Habits, etc. It runs off a point system, which I found to be super easy to track accomplishments & non-achievements during the day with just the tap of a finger. The free trial gives you 7 habits to track, which I found to be a strange number. I feel like 10 would be better suited to the free trial version. The only other thing I think could be better is if I’m the Ideas & Notes sections if there was a way to have the ideas or notes written be separated - being able to have multiple notes & ideas with some way of identifying which partner of the relationship wrote the idea or note. But besides that, there’s honestly nothing I can complain about. I highly recommend this app for any d/s relationship to at least try the free trial because once they do, there’s no way they wouldn’t appreciate a tool this useful!

As a sub, I need accountability, especially in the area of self care. One of my habits is drinking “x” number of water per day, which I’m a soda addict and it’s been the most difficult for me. However, even though I may not complete the habit for the day, I rarely drink soda and when I do, I usually can’t finish a can. Water is the drink I reach for now. My point is, the habits my dom set were to better my health and happiness. Not because he’s unhappy with how I look, but he knows I am, so he’s encouraging me to make better health decisions. I also like the ideas feature in which you can write out a scene or new things to try. Not only does it allow you to tentatively have a place to come up with a scene, it’s also fun when your dom or sub are not in one another’s presence, they can be surprised to find something you’ve come up with. Overall, I like it. I just wish you could go back to the previous day in case you forget to log your completed habits.

This is a fun little app that I love the aesthetic of and the capabilities. I have tried gamifying my habits, but it always falls short. Mostly due to my own lack of getting something meaningful in the moment of completing a task. I do, however, want to make a quick suggestion. Mostly for myself but others can benefit from it too. I think photos should be required to prove you completed the task. Now sure I could take photo’s with my phone app, but they don’t feel they have meaning when I do that so if a photo was required to complete the task you or your sub can see how much they are improving. The conditions could be set however the kinksters decide, but I feel it is a really good motivator if the sub is required to take a photo for each completion, and the time/date MUST be required to show proof. Perhaps it could be built into the frame of the photo based on the clock on one’s phone. Maybe even let either party customize the frame a bit with kinky phrases or kinky iconography just to make the photos really stand out. They should also be stored into a separate folder just for the kinkster’s have sound mind that some nosey’s won’t immediately see the kinkster in precarious situations if the photo has that. This is just my thoughts, ultimately I love this app so far and I hope to see some of these changes possibly make their way into the app.