Kids App Qustodio

So you see, I’m a teenager and I do things I regret doing sometimes. So my parents downloaded this app, it doesn’t show me anything but it doesn’t let my parents see what I’m doing either. I understand that you don’t have the same parents I do, but maybe setting up a compromise and figuring out something you like and you’re parents like may be the solution. Yes, I know and understand they might just make up an excuse, but ay, at least you tried in the end, and yes I may be thirteen and I may act immature sometimes, but in reality, I’m just a 13 year old trying to figure out her place in this cruel world, if you don’t want your child doing bad things teach them that stuff early as a kid and they might hate it and won’t accidentally search up something they will regret doing later. I know from experience, for an example, when I was six I went on a group chat with adult men and a boy that was 17 texted me and asked me if I would ehm his privates. I went straight to my parents after he showed me pictures of it and told them. They grounded me but I was okay with it, and now I know not to do it again. With that being said, IF YOU'RE GOING TO USE IT TO BABY YOU'RE TEENAGER, THAN DON’T DOWNLOAD THIS APP GO GET THERAPY AND MENTAL HELP best regards, Maddy a thirteen year old girl whose stating facts and making a point in her life.

I completely understand why any parent would want to get this app for their child. Of course you want to keep them safe from the dangers of the internet and restrict their exposure to screens. But there is definitely a very fine line between protecting your child and invading their privacy. If you really want to keep your child’s internet usage in check and make sure they are not getting into anything bad, just occasionally check their phone and don’t tell them you did. Teach them what is right and wrong, and what can be bad and dangerous. By downloading apps like these you are sending the message to your child that you don’t trust them and that creates a rip in your relationship. Parents must understand that kids have grown up with technology and the internet, and hiding that away is just keeping your child from the real world and separating them from their peers. Don’t doubt your child’s judgment, or they will doubt yours!! Don’t teach them that they cannot be curious and not trust you!! The internet is not inherently bad, although it is normal to be worried. Instead of downloading trust breaking apps like this, mentor your child. Show them that you want them to be cautious of predators and pornography, but do not show them that you don’t trust them. This app functions great and the intentions it has are healthy and normal, but breaking your child’s trust will destroy your relationship and lower your child’s self esteem.

Don't get this app parents. For the sake of your relationship with your child. I understand that you want to keep them safe but all your doing is creating trust issues. From experience during the time I've had this app, I have grown away from my family even more than ever. I feel like they don't trust me anymore. I can't open up to them because they would use, "its for your own good." or something along those lines. If you don't expose your child to the real world they won't survive. They won't know what to look for in a bad person or know how to protect themselves. If your child is having trouble understanding the real world or how life works then don't get them a phone. If you want your child to trust you then let them have their privacy. I know you will say, "but they are kids. They don't nee privacy" or, "they are not adults yet and don't have rights." or you might even say," well I pay for their phone bill so they don't have to." Those things I just listed are excuses. You only download apps like this one so you won't have to feel guilty if they get in trouble. Some problems ar fixable without your help. Sometimes they will need help and that is okay. I hope you consider this message and try to understand where your child is coming from. One more reason children like tech so much is because they grew up with it. It is second nature for them. So please give your kid(s) a second chance to prove they don't need apps like this one.