Olively: Anxious & Avoidant

This has helped me communicate so much better with my boyfriend who is a fearful avoidant. I have an anxious attachment style. While I don’t have the typical issues with texting that this attachment style has, I struggle with those anxious thoughts. This app has helped me understand his attachment style, what he needs, and how to effectively communicate. It has also helped me calm down with the pulse reads and insights! I definitely recommend this app to anyone who is new to dating or in a relationship! ❤️

I am a securely attached person dating someone who leans fearful avoidant. This app is a lifesaver. In real time, it helps me translate my intention to that it lands with effectiveness and lowers my anxiety by helping me understand what my FA is trying to say. The insights are also invaluable. What I like even better than the realtime coaching and regular insights is that my instinctive patterns are starting to evolve - Olively is teaching me by example and i don't think I'll always need to use it :)

i LOVE this app. has helped me understand what my dismissive avoidant partner means by what he says and helps me write messages about my feelings in a way he wouldn’t take it wrong. so useful that i even purchased the subscription. only thing i noticed and should probably be taken a look at is the risk/spiral ratings. for example, i copy and paste a message my partner sends me and it gives me a spiral rating and gives me a response. if i copy and paste that message again, gives me a different spiral rating and a different message to respond. Also, if i put the response the app gave me into translate, for some reason it shows me a high risk rating and gives me a different response to respond to. then i continued to put the new responses the app gives me back into translate and continues to give me high risk ratings and generates new responses. the cycle keeps going. so yea, great app, just this inconsistency should be looked at.