Relatio: Couples Relationship

I was in a 6 year relationship. It ended a couple of months ago and I was feeling down and lost. Billing for answers I downloaded this app instead of the 'kill her ego and get her crawling back' apps. I have found that if you really want to understand yourself and the relationship you were in -in an honest way, this app and program is quite beneficial. I wanted my ex back but, as I go through this deliberate lengthy program I'm rediscovering myself and I am finding that maybe I don't want to go back to that. I have also found my confidence returning and optimism. I feel like I've been given the tools to rekindle my old relationship or find a new one in a healthy way. I think for this program to work you have to be honest with yourself and go through it with intention. But it absolutely does work.

Idk how I was missing this advice all 32 years of my life until now. I love my wife more than ever before. This isn’t even just about the sex. I’m not even 2 weeks in and we haven’t had sex yet, I know it’s a process winning that back. But right now I’m finding I can relate to my wife in a way I never could before. I understand her. I have a bond with her. I can talk to her. I’m more attracted to her than I have been in a long time. Today was the first day since before we were married I was excited to get home just to see her. I’m so turned on by her, and the crazy thing I’m not even concerned at all about us not having sex right now because of how strongly I feel our connection in other ways. This makes me even more confident the next time we have sex it will be the best in a long time.

If you’ve never done therapy/can’t afford it and are completely lost, this app is probably great. If you have life experience and/or have gone through therapy, this app is usually pretty basic especially the stupid text heavy modules with very basic information you could find online for free. Also not a fan of some of the prompts but that’s because I’m someone who actually journals. The main courses/daily lessons I find somewhat helpful- maybe just because they give me hope and I’m desperate lol- but still have small things that could be better. Personally I don’t think it’s worth the cost. Also - the people giving this 5 stars are either those who like I said probably haven’t gone through counseling or are literally doing a first day/week review. My last major complaint is that i am highly suspicious of the apps claims that so many of its users get back with their exes. That said still going to try and get through the program but I’m not getting my hopes up. This app really should do better not to get other people’s hopes up either.