Peaceful CoParenting Messenger

Initial setup was fairly simple. Haven’t really dived into the app or given it enough time to get a real feel of the mechanics. I did have a slight issue with seeing new messages being sent to me or me being able to send messages. But it looks like the problem has been resolved. I will give it a few months and then update my review. Right now I’m standing at about 3-1/2 stars but I’ll give the benefit of the doubt with a 4 star rating.

This app has features that seem handy to a parent with an abusive coparent, however a parent that needs protection would be likely to not apply them. However, a parent who is abusive sets things into "canned chat" limits characters, messages per day etc making it impossible to even coordinate or do anything really. It took me reaching out to my coparent's lawyer and costing him money to even be allowed to set summer vacation plans. God forbid there is ever an emergency that does not allow for the time it takes to email lawyer and finish the loop. When set to limited characters and 30min between messages it glitches and resets the timer causing for one simple communication to take several days. All the while as the parent that wants to cooperate, I get long chains, accusations etc after hours and simply as a silent whipping post. Needless to say court is likely again in the near future and as bad for the kids as it is now; it will paint the narcissist for me

Finally, an app (i don’t know a other platform or software either) that allows you to “pause” yourself or your coparent when things get heated-to prevent things from escalating via text. The template or preset responses to use are perfect for keeping things on a business level. It’s like having a co-parenting specialist/therapist (which i did pay a ton for) helping YOU & your coparent navigate what can be tricky communication. It does all the traditional things that co parenting internet based platforms do (for documentation ) but is so much more.