Meetup: Social Events & Groups

I moved back to Cincinnati after 24 years and also returned to gaming. I joined up for a role playing game well in advance and there was an open slot. I drove 30 minutes to the location with time to spare only to be told by the GM that they were waiting for a regular player and if he showed up I would be bumped. He did - and considerably late like half an hour. So I get bumped and make the 30 minute drive back home. Later on the GM posted that the event was currently full until further notice but it stayed on there for months instead of being removed. Not too long after that I went to another rpg same deal - 30 minute drive and get bumped after the regular player shows up late. My opinion is if there is an open spot claimed on Meetup and the regular player shows up later than ten minutes then he concedes it to the stand in. It’s all about commitment - the stand in committed to driving all that way and being there on time why should he get bumped just because the other guy is a regular? If that is the rule then what’s to keep a regular player from constantly walking in late because he likes to stop off for soda and donuts along the way? There should be Meetup events open for sigh up players and events that aren’t on Meetup because they are already full with regular players. If you are going to be on Meetup hare regular players sign up or be listed. It’s a lot better system and more practical and respectful then turning away players who have committed.

Meet ups has turned out to be a life-changing game changer there is nothing out there like meet ups it’s a platform where anybody can advertise any kind of class any kind of modality any kind of healing tarot breathing breath work and just about everything else you can think of under the sun if you haven’t tried it do it just do a search for today or coming up in your town online and see what comes up there’s so many interesting things out there and meet ups is the place where you can find them honestly it is my daily go to to find out what I’m doing today what new subject I’m gonna study some new master class of all kinds it’s really really so much fun to try all these new things you really got to try it if you haven’t already! Most of the classes are free initially so you can at least try it and see if you like it and there’s so many things that don’t cost anything if you’re tight on a budget you don’t gotta worry about it because most of the places are by donation only so you can try the different thingsAnd not be obligated to pay for some thing that you haven’t even tried it or pay for something that you can’t afford, if i could give Meetups a 10 star i would try it youll see its amazing theUnlimited variety of subjects and classesRight now since the coronavirus almost everything is on zoom so you can do it from the comfort of your own home you don’t even have to leave your house it is really really cool!!!

It's tough for me to socialize. Even when I want to , it's not easy to find what will work. Meetup has given me a chance to connect with people based on mutual interests without feeling forced to socialize more than I want to. I started out with a movie meetup, something I often do alone.i had the option of socializing after too. Next I tried a local place where we could play video games and have snacks or drinks . I then found a group that meets up at a coffee shop to get paperwork done! I had been dreaming of finding something this, I even tried to place an ad for a buddy prior to meetup . I haven't tried started a meetup but it's also a possibility here. I found fellow sci fi lovers too, who knew ?! There are lots of groups for outdoor exercise like hiking and biking and during this time of distancing it may prove to be healthy endeavor. The fact that I can pick and choose is ideal. If you haven't tried meetup I say go for it! I am normally leery of people too and meetup provides a nice balance of meeting ,safety, interests and exploration. The groups are generally closed I found that to join I can say a bit about my interests and check out other profiles. I love that I have been about to hang with a 70 yr old and a 20 year old finding common ground. I can leave if I want or stay for the duration. I can talk sci fi or knit ,color or draw , exercise or chill. It's all there in meetup !